Does this sound familiar?
Your wife has been giving you signals to tell you something is wrong and one day, you wake up to a slap in the face. She says something along the lines of: I want to separate, I need some space to figure things out, I think we should divorce, I can't do this anymore, I cheated on you, or the classic 'I love you but I'm not in love with you.'
So being the fixer, you start to: do research, go to therapists or marriage counselors, read marriage books, get advice from your pastor, church, family and friends....and you end up with more questions than answers:
Should I be pursuing her or giving her space?
Is it time to lawyer up or go to marriage counseling?
Why is she buried in her phone all the time?
How do I get her trust and respect back?
Why is she calling me a narcissist, a gaslighter, or needy?
How do I meet her unending needs? (It feels impossible!)
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